I think they came up with some good answers for you here.
WordPress › Support » My Website freezes PC's who are AOL users Why?
Way - too much going on.


Here are some stats from Budget websites for small businesses: About us and the services we provide.
Download size: 2.93 MB
Total page size: 3.63 MB
Page compression: Excellent!, it appears server side page compression has been enabled and the total download size is about 19% smaller then the actual file size(s).
External files: We found 124 (images, scripts, frame pages, inline pages etc.).

You need some major optimaization. It will save your viewers and your bandwidth.